There is no denying that most women want to be attractive to the opposite sex. This is of even greater importance if you happen to be playing the dating game. But is it all about being the best looking female at a party or having an ultra toned body? Thankfully, the answer is no! There are many different aspects which go into making a female irresistible to a man and while looks are important, anyone that has been around awhile knows that it isn’t everything.
How do you become irresistible to guys?
One of the first steps is playing to your strengths. Discover where you shine and then stand under that light. This doesn’t mean always taking the spotlight, quite the opposite. Knowing when not to jump in is as important as knowing when to move. If you prefer small groups, don’t try to be the life of the party. Wait for him to come to you and then unleash your sparkle.
So what can you do to be extra inviting?
Don’t
. be sarcastic and negative
. act like a male and try to be his best mate
. grumble and groan if something doesn’t go the way you wanted, instead ‘build a bridge’ and get over it
. make blanket statements about how all the guys you know do this or that, effectively pointing the finger at all the foibles of the entire male gender
. come on too heavy in the beginning or be overbearing
. be overwhelmed and end up behaving in a manner that doesn’t gel with who you are. Its OK to the first step and its also OK to say no to a request.
Do
. be prepared to do things guys enjoy, even if it means getting your hands dirty
. be feminine. men often find the very things they gripe about in women are also the things they find appealing about the opposite sex
. enjoy it when your man acts like one.
. allow a man work to get to know you and what you like. A few unanswered questions can be intriguing and will draw a man back for more.
. Leave before everyone else does. Someone who has a life beyond the party is always interesting and usually more appealing.
. in intimate situations take responsibility for whether you have a good time or not. Knowing what you want and not being afraid to tell your partner can be tremendously exciting.
. have fun and flirt
. be who you are, don’t play games but rather permit him get to know the real you.
. be fit and healthy and take pride in your appearance. While attractiveness isn’t all about how you look, it is still important to look your best.
. if you’re unsure what you look best in pickup beauty and fashion advice from magazines and stylish friends
Of all of the above, the most important is to be the real you. Playing games can be diverting and a great ice breaker but never betray who you truly are to gain a man’s interest.
There is no doubt that one of the most inviting personality traits is confidence. A woman who values and likes herself is far more appealing than one who continually puts her own needs before others and always allows others’ opinions to drown out her own. If you aren’t happy with who you are then perhaps it is time for some personal stock-taking. As a friend of mine says, if you don’t like something change it and if you don’t want to do that, embrace it!